Planning a date
We'd like to meet. What next?
A planner could help you agree on a time, find a public place or choose an event. These pages also explain possible double dates and venue offers, without sharing your full calendar or telling a business who you're dating.
We haven't decided which meeting tools will be in the first release. You can't arrange or book a date through this website yet.
How would we plan a date?
Could it help us agree on a time and place?
Once you both want to meet, an optional planner could help with that. You could say “Saturday afternoon” or “somewhere near a town we both know” without sharing your whole calendar. It could suggest a café, a walk or an event based on what suits you both, including travel and accessibility needs. You'd choose the plan together.
What if we're ready to meet soon?
A temporary “Open to meet” setting could let you show that on a chosen profile. It would expire automatically and wouldn't change your saved boundaries or let a blocked person through.
Could it help us find each other when we arrive?
A “Find Each Other” option could share location briefly if you both switch it on for that date. It would stop if either person withdraws, last no more than about 30 minutes and keep no ordinary trail of where you went.
What about double dates and feedback afterwards?
A double date would need all four people to agree before a shared chat opens. Nobody would be told who privately declined. Afterwards, optional feedback would stay private: people wouldn't receive public stars or lose visibility because someone didn't want a second date.
Shared interests and events
Could I find people through shared interests?
That's one of the ideas. A walking group, board-game evening or other community could give you something to talk about. A shared membership would help only where both people have made it visible. Sensitive memberships wouldn't be announced elsewhere on the site.
Would everybody see which events I attend?
No public guest list is planned. Joining or checking in wouldn't take away your control over who can see you afterwards. Organisers would get only what they need to run the event; they couldn't browse your dating profile, messages or preferences.
What if an event needs my real name?
You would be told exactly which details were needed and who would receive them before you sign up. Verifying your dating account wouldn't automatically give an organiser those details.
Could we pick an event for a date?
Yes, that's a possibility. The service could suggest suitable events without giving the ticket company your dating preferences. Bookings and refunds would stay with the provider. If a chosen event moves or gets cancelled, the date plan should make that change clear.
Could a venue offer us a deal?
Could we get an offer from a café or another venue?
Possibly. Once you're both planning a date, a nearby venue could show a clearly marked offer that fits your plans. It wouldn't pop up just because you'd sent a few messages.
Could a business pay to change who I see?
No. Offers would have no say in dating suggestions, and paying wouldn't move a member up the list either.
Would the café know who we're dating?
It should receive only what's needed to honour the offer, such as a single-use code. It wouldn't get your dating profiles, chats or preferences. A business could see how many offers were used, without getting a list of who met whom.
Is this part of the launch plan?
That hasn't been decided. The terms, business checks, pricing and what happens if an offer can't be honoured still need work. These are ideas for later, rather than something you can book here today.